Mental Wellbeing – When to Ask for Help

Mental Wellbeing - When To Ask For Help

Any mental health condition rarely descends overnight. It begins with irregular symptoms that can easily be explained away or ignored because they disappear quickly. 

Watch out for things like feeling a little low for no apparent reason, feeling tired more frequently than usual, or experiencing disturbed sleep. 

All the symptoms are usual, and perfectly normal human responses to situations we might find ourselves in and are usually short lived.  Increased frequency and lengthening duration are indicators that there is a deeper underlying condition forming. 

When conditions that are being experienced start to affect normal daily life, feel impossible to control or are out of perspective with the situation at hand, then this is the point at which it’s time to talk to seek help. 

Take Action

Taking action early is beneficial in a number of ways. Here are some of the advantages: 

Simpler remedies: Talking can be the antidote in some circumstances. Talking is a powerful form of treatment and has been underrated in the past, especially by anyone with a condition.  The majority of the population are programmed from a young age to be “strong” and handle situations themselves. This is helpful for everyday challenges, however, nurturing relationships and habits of confiding in trusted friends or family is a very healthy norm.

More effective treatment: Early intervention allows for prompt diagnosis and treatment, increasing the chances of successful recovery. Mental health conditions are often easier to manage when addressed in the early stages before they worsen or become more ingrained. Timely intervention can prevent the condition from progressing and minimize its impact on your daily life. 

Improved prognosis: Addressing mental health concerns early can lead to better long-term outcomes. It may help reduce the duration and severity of symptoms, prevent relapses, and decrease the risk of complications associated with untreated conditions. With appropriate treatment and support, individuals have a higher likelihood of achieving and maintaining mental well-being. 

Enhanced coping skills: Seeking help early provides an opportunity to learn effective coping strategies and develop resilience. Mental health professionals can guide you in acquiring skills to manage stress, regulate emotions, challenge negative thinking patterns, and improve overall psychological well-being. By learning and practicing these skills early on, you can build a solid foundation for managing your mental health throughout life. 

Preventive measures: Early intervention can help identify risk factors and warning signs of mental health conditions. By addressing these factors promptly, you may be able to prevent the development of a full-blown mental illness or minimize its impact. Preventive measures can involve lifestyle adjustments, stress management techniques, therapy, or medication, depending on individual circumstances. 

Minimized impact on personal and professional life: Untreated mental health conditions can significantly impact various areas of life, including relationships, work or school performance, and overall quality of life. By taking action early, you can mitigate these negative effects and maintain your ability to function optimally. This can prevent disruptions, preserve important relationships, and ensure productivity in both personal and professional domains. 

Reduced stigma: Early intervention contributes to reducing the stigma surrounding mental health. By seeking help early on, you demonstrate self-awareness, proactive self-care, and a willingness to address your mental well-being. This sets a positive example, encourages open dialogue, and helps break down the barriers that prevent others from seeking help. 

It is important to remember, if you or someone you know is experiencing mental health difficulties, it is important to reach out to a mental health professional or a healthcare provider for appropriate assessment, guidance, and support. 

About Talking Therapy

If talking therapy is offered our recommendation is to take it, give it a chance. Attend at least 3 sessions before deciding whether to continue. Here are a few tips for getting the most benefit from it: 

Find the right therapist: It’s crucial to find a therapist who is a good fit for you. Look for someone who specializes in the specific issue you’re facing and with whom you feel comfortable and understood. Research different therapists, read reviews, and consider seeking recommendations from trusted sources. It may take a few sessions to determine if the therapist is the right match for you, so don’t hesitate to explore different options if needed.   

If you have opted for treatment through the NHS Talking Therapies Service, you will receive an initial assessment call. During the call information will be collected to assess which type of therapy will be best suited to your symptoms.  

Establish clear goals: Before starting therapy, reflect on what you hope to achieve. Set specific, realistic goals that you can work towards with your therapist. (You can also discuss this with your therapist if you have never done this before). Clearly communicate your objectives during your initial sessions, as this will help guide the therapy process and ensure you’re both aligned on the desired outcomes. 

Be open and honest: Honesty and openness are essential for productive therapy sessions. Share your thoughts, emotions, and experiences openly with your therapist. It’s natural to feel vulnerable, but remember that therapists are trained professionals bound by confidentiality and non-judgment. The more transparent you are, the better your therapist can understand and support you. 

Actively participate: Therapy is a collaborative process. Actively engage in the sessions by asking questions, seeking clarification, and providing feedback. Take responsibility for your own progress and growth by completing any homework or exercises suggested by your therapist between sessions. Engaging actively will help you gain more insight, develop skills, and make the most of your therapy experience. 

Practice self-reflection: Therapy is not limited to the time spent with your therapist. Take time to reflect on your thoughts, feelings, and experiences outside of therapy sessions. Consider journaling, meditation, or mindfulness practices to deepen your self-awareness and gain further insights into your mental and emotional well-being. Sharing these reflections with your therapist can provide valuable material for discussion and exploration. 

Be patient and committed: Therapy is a process that takes time and effort. Results may not be immediate, and progress can occur in fits and starts. Trust the process and remain committed to attending regular sessions. Consistency and continuity are key to achieving lasting change and growth. 

Apply what you learn: Therapy is an opportunity to learn new coping skills, gain self-insight, and develop healthier behaviours and thought patterns. Apply what you learn in therapy to your everyday life. Practice implementing new strategies and techniques and be willing to challenge and change unhelpful patterns. Remember, therapy is not just a place to vent; it’s a space for growth and transformation. 

Seek support when needed: If you find yourself struggling between therapy sessions or facing acute challenges, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Inform your therapist about any urgent concerns or seek additional help from support groups, helplines, or crisis services. Your therapist can also provide referrals to other resources or professionals if necessary. 

By actively participating, staying committed, and implementing the insights gained from therapy, you can maximize the benefits and achieve positive changes in your mental and emotional well-being. 

While You Wait

Although most private therapists will have availability quite close to your initial contact with them, if you choose the NHS services, you might have to wait. This is purely an indication of the volume of need across the country for these services.  

Phoenix Rising Online Support is designed as wrap around support to ease the gap. We are not therapists, however, we do have knowledge and understanding of mental health challenges and will listen and provide moral support while you wait for a therapist to become available. The service, however, is not funded and is provided privately, so there will be an affordable charge. For a free exploratory conversation reach out via our website today. 

https://www.phoenixrisingsupport.com/contact

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